Why Does He Cheat?

WHY DOES HE CHEAT?

Cheaters- they come in all shapes and sizes. In my opinion, the more attention someone needs the more likely they are to cheat. Let’s look at some common reasons for cheating.

Boredom leads the list. Whether single or married, when boredom sets in, eyes and thoughts wander. For this person, something in their life is missing. It may the relationship has fallen into a rut, the two of you have grown apart, your individual careers keep you apart; or you simply don’t share the same vision for your futures. Sometimes the boredom has nothing to do with you. Your partner may be going through a difficult time at work or has lost his job. His self- esteem is at an all time low and he finds someone else to make him feel special.

Adrenal junkies are next on my list. These people need a rush to make them feel alive. Their lives consist of a constant three some or more, and the goal is not to get caught. The greater number of woman they can juggle the greater the rush.

Impulse control, some people simply lack it. They are unable to think of the consequences of their actions. They find themselves or put themselves in situations where they can be tempted to cheat and then t

ARE YOU RESPONSIBLE?

In reality, no one is responsible for another person’s actions. You are responsible for your own happiness and taking on a relationship with a known cheater will probably not make you happy unless your goal is to suffer.

My marriage or relationship is over because he cheated with HER.

No that is not why your relationship is over. Your relationship was problematic before HER. Furthermore, if he didn’t cheat with HER he would have cheated with another HER.

NEXT WEEK:  DO YOU REALLY LOVE HIM?

General by Carol