Why won’t he commit?

WHY WON’T HE COMMIT?

Each case is somewhat different. Let’s look at the question checklist.

First, is he available? If not, He won’t commit. That was easy.

Second, How long have you been dating?

• 0 to3 months: It is really too soon to expect a commitment.

• 6 to 12 months: The 6 to 12 month period should be a good indicator as to where the relationship is headed. You should be making future plans for the holiday season, vacation, weekend trips. If he is willing to make future plans, he is not thinking of ending the relationship.

• 1 year and over: Your relationship has stalled. He seems to be dragging his feet. He is evasive about the future. You may feel like the two of you are distancing, arguing more, or he is simply making excuses to spend more time working.

This does not pertain to couples who have previous life commitments; for example, finishing an education, military duty, getting a divorce. Life can get in the way of making future plans.

If you are in a stalled relationship, the next step is to ask yourself why. What is the real cause of why your relationship is stuck.
The cause can vary from minor to major.

Some minor causes of stalled relationships are: lack of trust, financial insecurity on either parties side, your kids, your family, whether or not to have children, an extreme age difference.

Major causes can include but are not limited to addiction problem and cheating.

What to do:
For minor problems , it would be best to openly communicate your needs and expectations. If the relationship is strong enough and basically good the two of you should be able to reach a compromise.

For more major problems like addiction, It is best to seek expert advice and cure the addiction. In the case of those who cheat, we will further discuss this next week and in more detail.

If you are calling your psychic for an accurate reading, be prepared to discuss your relationship with your advisor. It is very difficult to give you the detailed answers that you are looking for while you are remaining mute. Remember, readers see trends, if your question is simply will my relationship last be prepared to hear the word no. However if you are interested in knowing what you can do to save your relationship express this to your reader.
NEXT WEEK: WHY DOES HE CHEAT?

General by Carol