Does He Love Me (Part II)

Anyone remember the Schoop Schoop song?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CDeu36GV_DI&feature=fvst

Well I can guarantee you that it is not in his kiss!

Love, respect, and friendship are vital ingredients when conjuring up a long term committed relationship.

So how do you know that he really loves you?

1. Does he keep his word?

2. Is he attentive to you ?

3. Does he put your needs and wants ahead of his own 50% of the time?

4. Does he go out of his way to spend time with you?

If you answered no to any of these questions, you should take the time to objectively re-evaluate your relationship. Sometimes, it helps to discuss your relationship issues with an objective 3rd party adviser; after all, they are not emotionally involved in your relationship. By third party, I do not mean your friends and family.

Why Not?  Simple – friends and family are usually on your side and you run the risk of alienating them against the object of your desire should the relationship turn around.

An objective third party is someone who has nothing to gain or lose whether or not you chose to remain in the relationship. Some good examples are psychics, counselors, life coaches, and clergy depending on your preference.

Okay, now you have looked over your relationship with a critical eye and have answered the questions honestly. You think you might have a problem. You then consult with an objective third person and they confirm your worst fears. Now what??

Next week, we will talk about my second least favorite question- Why doesn’t he love me?

General by Carol