Does He Really Love Me?

Today, we are going to begin a 3 part blog series focusing on love.
Part 1 Does he love me?
Part 2 Do you really love him?
Part 3 The irresistible spell .

By far, the most burning question that clients always ask is, ” Does he love me?” I certainly cannot speak for everyone else in my profession, but this is a tough question to answer. My client is waiting for a resounding YES – while, I on the other hand are taking some long deep breaths! Why? Because it is a complicated question. In very simple terms- is the relationship in lust or in love. Sometimes these two emotions are confusing to the reader as well as the client.

As an intuitive and empathic reader, I can pick up the sexual chemistry around the couple. If I consult the tarot or playing cards, I can clearly see the connection between the couple. But, what my client is really asking is, ” will this last?” This really reminds me of that old BeeGees song,”How deep is your love”.  Because getting to the root of love is similar to peeling the layers of an onion. There are just so many levels. Keep in mind that the external worlds plays a big role in the success of our love relationship.

In other words for a real relationship to last, we must prepare for the variables that can influence your current relationship. And believe me there are many situations that can influence someone to fall out of love with you. Some examples; family and friends are not supportive, changes in income, changes in physical appearance, personality traits that come out later.

As adults, we need to remember that we are not entitled to unconditional love. In reality, love is based on agreements and conditions. If either party fails to uphold their end of the relationship the relationship will fail or at the very least people are miserable.

So the next time you are calling a psychic with a love question try to be a bit more speciific about what you really want to know. Also, astrological readings can be very insightful because an astrologer can determine when you are more likely to meet the man of your dreams and or commit to a relationship.

I have included 2 web sites which some of you may find helpful. One, is the Arabic stages of love. For all of you Bollywood fans, in the movie “Marigold”, the writers refer to this continually. The second site is written from a psychological standpoint which I found enlightening.

http://www.suite101.com/content/love-love-me-do-a12516
http://kalchiron.blogspot.com/2009/03/seven-stages-of-love.html

Stayed Tuned for Next Weeks Blog: Do you Really Love Him?

General by Carol